The business of church is ultimately people. You’re trying to heal people, grow people, teach people, and mend people. And when leaders spend all of their time helping and growing other people, they ignore their own growth.
HENRY CLOUDDating is a give and take. If you only see it as “Taking,” you are not getting it.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.
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If you want to become healthy, you have to surround yourself with a group of people that are getting healthy and you have to be connected to a community that is doing what you want to do.
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Dating is primarily a numbers game. People usually go through a lot of people to find good relationships. That’s just the way it is.
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Dont use all-or-nothing thinking. Take each day as its own day, and dont worry about it if you mess up one day. The most important thing you can do is just get back up on the horse.
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Because dating is a human exercise, it can be a tightrope fraught with danger. You will be dating imperfect people, and some of them are more imperfect than others. In addition, you are not perfect either, so that complicates the picture.
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If people are really narcissistic or have a need to be seen as more than they really are, or to be admired as having it all together, then they cannot be followed and trusted by others.
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A person who hasn’t grieved a significant loss has unfinished business inside and can cause others great grief as a result.
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Independence is not an option for us. Remember, God existed without us.
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The opposite of bad is not good.The opposite of bad is love
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The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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Dating is a place to practice how to relate to other people.
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Who a person is will ultimately determine if their brains, talents, competencies, energy, effort, deal-making abilities, and opportunities will succeed.
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Some goals are not going to fulfill you. Choose goals that you value and care about.
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We have our own thoughts, and if we want others to know them, we must tell them.
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