True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
HENRY CLOUDIn a very real way, ownership is the essence of leadership. When you are ridiculously in charge, then you own whatever happens in a company, school.
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We all make mistakes, but the people who thrive from their mistakes are the successful ones.
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If you are building a culture where honest expectations are communicated and peer accountability is the norm, then the group will address poor performance and attitudes.
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Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen.
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The extent to which two people in a relationship can bring up and resolve issues is a critical marker of the soundness of a relationship.
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For someone’s character to grow, it has to be free from internal attack. Falling down never stopped children from developing. But getting yelled at, criticized, and put down can stop them for life.
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When truth presents itself, the wise person see the light, takes it in, and makes adjustments. The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.
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A culture is like an immune system. It operates through the laws of systems, just like a body. If a body has an infection, the immune system deals with it. Similarly, a group enforces its norms, either actively or passively.
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Confronting an irresponsible person is not painful to him; only consequences are.
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We need rest not just so we feel better. We need rest for actual creation of what we’re going to need the next day.
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Dont use all-or-nothing thinking. Take each day as its own day, and dont worry about it if you mess up one day. The most important thing you can do is just get back up on the horse.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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Dating is a give and take. If you only see it as “Taking,” you are not getting it.
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The human heart will seek to be known, understood, and connected with above all else. If you do not connect, the ones you care about will find someone who will.
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Leave your pride, ego, and narcissism somewhere else. Reactions from those parts of you will reinforce your children’s most primitive fears.
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Love can only exist where freedom and responsibility are operating.
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