Your suffering is never caused by the person you’re blaming.
BYRON KATIE
BYRON KATIE
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Spare yourself from seeking love, approval, or appreciation-from anyone. And watch what happens in reality, just for fun.
Byron KatieByron Katie I have had the privilege of losing everything.
Byron KatieByron Katie God, as I use the word, is another name for what is. I always know God’s intention: It’s exactly what is in every moment.
Byron KatieByron Katie I have never experienced a stressful feeling that wasn’t caused by attaching to an untrue thought. Behind every uncomfortable feeling, there’s a thought that isn’t true for us.
Byron KatieByron Katie The mind’s job is to validate what it thinks.
Byron KatieByron Katie If I want something, I go get it. Anything that I believe will stop me, I question.
Byron KatieByron Katie There’s no nightmare you can’t wake yourself up from.
Byron KatieByron Katie The world is what you believe it to be, and it changes as you change.
Byron KatieByron Katie Life is simple. Everything happens for you, not to you.
Byron KatieByron Katie To exclude anything that appears in your universe is not love. Love joins with everything. It doesn’t exclude the monster. It doesn’t avoid the nightmare – it looks forward to it.
Byron KatieByron Katie It’s not the problem that causes our suffering; it’s our thinking about the problem.
Byron KatieByron Katie We begin to not be human, as we’ve known it, any longer. But to be just creative minds and action, whereas right now we’re confused minds and actions, and our environment mirrors that back to us.
Byron KatieByron Katie It makes sense that no one else can cause you pain. That’s your job.
Byron KatieByron Katie When they attack you and you notice that you love them with all your heart, your Work is done.
Byron KatieByron Katie Whatever it takes for you to find your freedom, that’s what you’ve lived.
Byron KatieByron Katie The opening to reality, as it really is, is beauty.
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