Ben Gibbard on bedroom
Ben Gibbard71 quotes“I can remember sitting up in guitarist Chris Walla’s bedroom and for the first time in my life having this realization like, “Maybe I can do this. Maybe I can make music that in some capacity people will enjoy and come see me play.””
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You can’t please everybody all the time, but I think for the most part we tend to maintain a healthy level of self-reference to kind of make sure we continue to push things forward.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard We always idealize the past because we don’t feel the painful stuff the way we used to.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard You spend hours alone, only with your thoughts, and you torture yourself. It’s a tendency of many writers to temper the self-destructive act of writing with other self-destructive acts. I certainly was one of those people for a long time.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I feel like on those older records there are a lot of attempts at clever turns of phrase.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard Nada Surf and Harvey Danger are good bands. I think they’ve just stayed true to why they play music in the first place, it’s just because they love doing it and they love each other and that’s the impetus for doing it, not trying to keep singles on the radio and on MTV.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I was literally just going and applying for jobs, and I couldn’t get a job, and I was getting more and more broke, and you find yourself groveling for jobs you don’t even want.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I don’t spend my time perusing message boards to find out what people think about me or if people think my songs are good or if people love that lyric or this or that. I just want to be happy with it myself – and if other people like it, that’s great.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I’m starting to relate more to the late-period Kerouac stuff in the way that I once related to the fun and excitement of the early material. There’s a darkness inside of me that I’m only now starting to come to grips with and accept. And it’s starting to scare me.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I kind of dropped a lot of bad habits about three years ago and became kind of accidentally straight-edge. I don’t have Xs on my hands, but I guess if I wanted to go back to calling myself straight-edge, I could.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard There were a lot of fences and walls existing in my life, literally and figuratively, and that was really not indicative of the kind of person that I’d always been. So, when I moved back to Seattle, the first thing I said was, “I will never live in fear again.”
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I’d like the songs to be more storytelling, but also have the turns of phrase within them that would hopefully distance my writing from the pack.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard We wanted to be like R.E.M., but the reality is that 15 years after R.E.M. was putting out those records, the playing field had changed drastically as well.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard We would scoff at the idea of a nice studio. “Why would you want to go to a nice studio? Oh wow, they have really expensive gear. Ooh, that’s really fancy. Well we’ve got an eight-track. We’ve got it going on here.”
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard As a songwriter, I’m not necessarily writing about myself or my life.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard Our band is very polarizing. There are people who absolutely can’t stand us, and people who absolutely can’t live without us. I’d rather spark those kind of polar-opposite feelings than have people be indifferent.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard Hall & Oates is one of the few musical groups as satisfying now as it was back then. There’s something incredibly musically satisfying about their songs. Nothing has diminished my love for them.
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Luckily, many other people tell me how they have had a particular landscape photograph of mine in their office or bedroom for 15 years and it always speaks to them strongly whenever they see it
GalenGalen We had no refrigerator, no shower or tub, and no privacy. My parents shared the bedroom with my sister and me.
Lou HoltzLou Holtz Every actor has three versions of each scene – the one that you rehearse the night before, in your bedroom.
Zac EfronZac Efron Our cellar home had a kitchen and a combination bedroom and half bath, which meant we had a sink next to the bed.
Lou HoltzLou Holtz We lived in a two-bedroom, one-bath house in St. Louis Park, Minnesota. We weren’t rich – but we felt secure.
Al FrankenAl Franken They talked about unreasonable searches and seizures, about keeping the government out of their bedrooms.
Al FrankenAl Franken It was just me in my bedroom. It gave me freedom and made me happy.
AfrojackAfrojack My pop is this big, huge man, nothing can hurt him. I went running into his bedroom like, ‘Daddy, Daddy, the boogie man’s under the bed!’ Pop opens one eye, he’s like, ‘Is the boogie man bigger than me?’ ‘
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