Ben Gibbard on starting
Ben Gibbard71 quotes“I don’t want to be overdramatic about it, but I’m starting to see a lot of my bad habits get the best of me.”
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I don’t think Chris realized he was in a band until 2001. He all of a sudden woke up one day and realized he was in a band. He thought he was just recording my solo project. Three albums later, we’re in Baltimore trying to figure out what to do with ourselves.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard For me, a song doesn’t really take flight until it has a lyric on it. …Without a lyric that I’m happy with, it could be the greatest song ever melodically or arrangement-wise, but it doesn’t have any resonance.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I feel that we are currently living in a world that is similar to late ’50s, early ’60s kind of world.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard The Photo Album is the weakest record. For the first time in our careers, we found ourselves with an economic incentive to be on the road and to be making albums.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard Every record we do there are always two camps. There’s the camp that’s like, “I love it. It sounds different than the last one.”
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard You can’t please everybody all the time, but I think for the most part we tend to maintain a healthy level of self-reference to kind of make sure we continue to push things forward.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard We always idealize the past because we don’t feel the painful stuff the way we used to.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard You spend hours alone, only with your thoughts, and you torture yourself. It’s a tendency of many writers to temper the self-destructive act of writing with other self-destructive acts. I certainly was one of those people for a long time.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I feel like on those older records there are a lot of attempts at clever turns of phrase.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard Nada Surf and Harvey Danger are good bands. I think they’ve just stayed true to why they play music in the first place, it’s just because they love doing it and they love each other and that’s the impetus for doing it, not trying to keep singles on the radio and on MTV.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I was literally just going and applying for jobs, and I couldn’t get a job, and I was getting more and more broke, and you find yourself groveling for jobs you don’t even want.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I don’t spend my time perusing message boards to find out what people think about me or if people think my songs are good or if people love that lyric or this or that. I just want to be happy with it myself – and if other people like it, that’s great.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I’m starting to relate more to the late-period Kerouac stuff in the way that I once related to the fun and excitement of the early material. There’s a darkness inside of me that I’m only now starting to come to grips with and accept. And it’s starting to scare me.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I kind of dropped a lot of bad habits about three years ago and became kind of accidentally straight-edge. I don’t have Xs on my hands, but I guess if I wanted to go back to calling myself straight-edge, I could.
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard There were a lot of fences and walls existing in my life, literally and figuratively, and that was really not indicative of the kind of person that I’d always been. So, when I moved back to Seattle, the first thing I said was, “I will never live in fear again.”
Ben GibbardBen Gibbard I’d like the songs to be more storytelling, but also have the turns of phrase within them that would hopefully distance my writing from the pack.
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