One of the challenges of commencement speeches is that you have this older, wiser person who is accomplished talking to young, not-yet-so-wise, not-yet-accomplished adults or, in high school or middle school, even younger.
ANGELA DUCKWORTHI think the questions on the grit scale about not letting setbacks disappoint you, finishing what you begin, doing things with focus, I think that those are things I would aspire to or hope for for all our children.
More Angela Duckworth Quotes
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When people tell me I can’t do something, I have a visceral reflex to say, ‘Yes, I can.’
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When people think of the word ‘drive,’ they often think you have it or you don’t, and that’s where we’re wrong.
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I know that instructional time is a zero-sum game, but if we want kids to do well academically, it’s hard to imagine that happening if they don’t have some control over their attention.
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Substituting nuance for novelty is what experts do, and that is why they are never bored.
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Grittier students are more likely to earn their diplomas; grittier teachers are more effective in the classroom.
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I was a good novice teacher, but I did the things that were obvious.
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Nobody gets to be good at something without effort, no matter what your aptitude is.
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Really, what matters in the long run is sticking with things and working daily to get better at them.
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The parenting style that is good for grit is also the parenting style good for most other things: Be really, really demanding, and be very, very supportive.
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Grit is living life like it’s a marathon, not a sprint.
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Psychologists call this the maturity principle. My own life experience fits this principle to a T.
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The words that we use I think are symbolic of the values that we hold.
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Why do some people try, try again, and why do some people not? That’s what I’m after.
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My dad was not super-intentional in his parenting. He was very self-absorbed. I won’t say mean or selfish per se, but very self-absorbed. I think he was just thinking out loud.
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Maybe. But the reality is that our early interests are fragile, vaguely defined, and in need of energetic, years-long cultivation and refinement.
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