We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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