What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
ALAIN DE BOTTONArguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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