You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSocrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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