It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSocrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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