When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhen Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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