My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhen Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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