We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhen Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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