The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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