Must being in love always mean being in pain?
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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