There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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