We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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