True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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