We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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