Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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