I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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