Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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