Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
ALAIN DE BOTTONBeing content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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