Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
ALAIN DE BOTTONBeing content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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