Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
ALAIN DE BOTTONBeing content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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