There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
ALAIN DE BOTTONBeing content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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