As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIn the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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