The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
ALAIN DE BOTTONDreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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