People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
ALAIN DE BOTTONDreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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