For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
ALAIN DE BOTTONDreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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