The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
ALAIN DE BOTTONDreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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