It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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