We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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