As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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