People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSerious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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