Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSerious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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