All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSerious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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