To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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