One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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