Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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