As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhen you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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