The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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