Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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