When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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