Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIf we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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