People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIf we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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