Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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