The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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