Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
ALAIN DE BOTTONForgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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