It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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