You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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