There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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