One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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