My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAn argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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