Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAn argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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