Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAn argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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