Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAn argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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