Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAn argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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