It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAn argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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