One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
ALAIN DE BOTTONEnvy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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