One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
ALAIN DE BOTTONEnvy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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