Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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