Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
ALAIN DE BOTTON…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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