Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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