Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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