Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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