Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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