A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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