…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
ALAIN DE BOTTONBitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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