What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
ALAIN DE BOTTONBitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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