The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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