Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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