Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
ALAIN DE BOTTONGood sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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