Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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