It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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