The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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