It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
ALAIN DE BOTTONForcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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