Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
ALAIN DE BOTTONForcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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