One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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