He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
AIMEE BENDERShe is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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My lover is experiencing reverse evolution.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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You try, you seem totally nuts, you go underground.
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As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It’s the mathematical logic of being alive.
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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Glen Hirshberg’s stories are haunting, absolutely, but not only because of the content.
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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