You’re the perfect girl’, he said, rubbing his chin. ‘You expect nothing.
AIMEE BENDERShe is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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I want to be violated by insight.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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Glen Hirshberg’s stories are haunting, absolutely, but not only because of the content.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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I don’t think so, I don’t agree. The most unbearable thing I think by far, she said, is hope.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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