A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
AIMEE BENDERThere’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Before she knew it was candles, did she think she’d done it herself? With the amazing turns of her hips.
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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Not getting bored of my own story and/or character is one of the main struggles.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
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My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.” – Aimee Bender (Willful Creatures: Stories)
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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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