The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
AIMEE BENDERMom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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The stories themselves haunt, they stick around, they linger, inhabiting a little corner of the reader’s brain and resurfacing to evoke mystery or sadness or longing.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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Glen Hirshberg’s stories are haunting, absolutely, but not only because of the content.
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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When language is treated beautifully and interestingly, it can feel good for the body: It’s nourishing; it’s rejuvenating.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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You’re the perfect girl’, he said, rubbing his chin. ‘You expect nothing.
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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And the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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