It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It’s the mathematical logic of being alive.
AIMEE BENDERMom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.” – Aimee Bender (Willful Creatures: Stories)
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I want to be violated by insight.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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Language is the ticket to plot and character, after all, because both are built out of language.
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With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
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The stories themselves haunt, they stick around, they linger, inhabiting a little corner of the reader’s brain and resurfacing to evoke mystery or sadness or longing.
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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