I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
AIMEE BENDERMom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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I could feel the tears beginning to collect in my throat again, but I pushed them apart, away from each other. Tears are only a threat in groups.
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The stories themselves haunt, they stick around, they linger, inhabiting a little corner of the reader’s brain and resurfacing to evoke mystery or sadness or longing.
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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You try, you seem totally nuts, you go underground.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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