We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
AIMEE BENDERAnd the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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You’re the perfect girl’, he said, rubbing his chin. ‘You expect nothing.
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I admired that stride; it was like he folded space in two with it.
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.
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I like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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