Everybody is dealing with how much of their own aliveness they can bear and how much they need to anesthetize themselves.
ADAM PHILLIPSPeople change, but there really are limits.
More Adam Phillips Quotes
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The vocabulary of one’s self-criticism is so impoverished and clichéd.
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To keep faith with recognition we have to stay recognizable.
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Sanity, as the project of keeping ourselves recognizably human, therefore has to limit the range of human experience.
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The big secret about Art is that no one wants it to be true.
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The child..will try to make himself..independent of other people. .
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I am always true to myself, that is the problem. Who else could I be true to?
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we are continually under threat from what we are unwilling and/or unable to see.
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Monogamy is a way of getting the versions of ourselves down to the minimum.
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The whole notion of sanity may be an attempt to medicalize morality – to speak of the good in the language of health: to make us more accurate, more scientific in our wanting – but by the same token it becomes a form of moral blackmail.
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When we define ourselves by what we can recognize, by what we can comprehend- rather than, say, by what we can describe
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Wanting to be understood, as adults, can be our most violent form of nostalgia.
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We are at our most stupid in our self-hatred.
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There is always a ..belief that by destroying the thing that we love we destroy our needs
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There is nothing more scandalous than a happy marriage
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The past influences everything and dictates nothing.
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